When We Ask to Be Taught

Psalm 143:10 “Teach me to do thy will; for thou art my God; thy Spirit is good; lead me into the land of uprightness.”

There is a difference between asking God to show us His will and asking Him to teach us to do it. The first can remain largely intellectual. We want to know what God thinks, what direction He prefers, or what decision would be right. The second reaches much deeper, because it acknowledges that knowing the right path does not necessarily mean we are ready to walk it.

David’s prayer in Psalm 143 is therefore remarkably honest. “Teach me to do thy will.” He does not simply ask for information. He asks for formation. He recognises that obedience is something the heart must learn.

When Knowing Is Not Enough

Most of us know more about the Christian life than we consistently practise. We know that forgiveness matters, yet resentment can remain stubborn. We understand the importance of prayer, yet distraction easily takes over. We believe that God should be trusted, while still trying to control outcomes that were never ours to manage.

The difficulty is not always ignorance. Sometimes we already know what faithfulness requires, but another part of us resists it.

That is why David’s prayer is so useful. Instead of assuming that obedience should come naturally, he asks God to teach him. There is humility in those words. He recognises that doing God’s will involves learning new responses, surrendering old habits and allowing the Spirit to reshape the instincts by which we live.

Christian growth is not simply learning more truths. It is becoming the kind of person who increasingly lives the truth we already know.

“For Thou Art My God”

David gives a reason for his prayer: “for thou art my God.”

Obedience is rooted in relationship. God’s will is not the arbitrary demand of a distant authority but the guidance of the One to whom we belong. That changes the character of obedience. We are not simply following rules; we are learning to trust the wisdom of God even when His direction challenges our preferences.

There will inevitably be moments when His will and ours diverge. We may want vindication when He calls us to patience. We may want certainty when He asks us to trust. We may want comfort when obedience requires courage.

At such times, the question becomes less, “Do I understand everything God is doing?” and more, “Do I trust the God who is leading me?”

David’s words remind us that surrender becomes possible when relationship is stronger than resistance.

The Good Spirit Who Leads

The verse then turns towards the character of the One who teaches us: “thy Spirit is good.”

That small phrase matters enormously. We are not being led by a capricious or cruel God. His Spirit is good. His guidance may sometimes correct us, unsettle us or lead us beyond familiar ground, but its purpose is never our destruction.

Because His Spirit is good, we can allow ourselves to be taught.

We do not have to fear that surrender to God will somehow make our lives smaller or less human. The opposite is true. His work leads us towards wholeness, integrity and righteousness. David asks to be led “into the land of uprightness,” a beautiful picture of a life increasingly aligned with what is true and good.

Learning to Pray Differently

There is a practical shift here for us. Instead of praying only, “Lord, show me what to do,” we might begin praying, “Lord, teach me to do what I already know.”

Teach me to forgive when I would rather rehearse the hurt. Teach me to listen when I would rather defend myself. Teach me to wait when I want immediate answers. Teach me to remain faithful when obedience seems unnoticed. Teach me to recognise where pride, fear or habit is quietly resisting You.

Such prayer invites God into the deeper places where behaviour begins.

The Christian life is not merely a search for God’s will. It is a lifelong education in learning to love it, trust it and practise it. We will not master that lesson quickly, but we do not learn alone.

The Spirit who teaches us is good. The God who leads us is ours. And day by day, as we remain willing to be taught, He leads us towards a life that more closely reflects His own righteousness.

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If you have found this helpful, there is more to explore across Saints of the Restoration. You can continue with our Daily Bread devotionals, go deeper through The Deeper Walk, consider some of Life’s Questions, reflect through Bible Poetry, or browse our growing library of free Christian books and study resources.

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